Fix alternate filtering conditions in object selector dialog

Summary:
These didn't get updated either when the main search got rebuilt. Adjust and modernize them. Also this uses "exclude", which I couldn't find any callsites for but just missed, so restore that.

At some point I plan to swap this whole thing to ApplicationSearch and that will let us get rid of a bunch of stuff.

Test Plan: Searched for all filters, got sensible results, verified source object doesn't show up as a result.

Reviewers: btrahan

Reviewed By: btrahan

CC: aran, mbishopim3

Differential Revision: https://secure.phabricator.com/D8188